All Settled helps separating couples divide their household possessions fairly, calmly, and clearly — with a structured process and support at every stage, without the need for legal intervention.
When a relationship ends, working out who keeps what is one of the most practical — and most emotionally charged — tasks a couple faces. Every item can carry history, and without a clear process, deciding what happens to it quickly turns into a source of conflict.
All Settled gives that conversation structure. Instead of negotiating item by item under pressure, both people work from the same inventory, the same categories, and the same agreed methods for resolving what's left — reaching a written outcome they can each feel good about.
All Settled isn't about taking sides. It's about creating the conditions for two people to have a practical, respectful conversation — and reach an outcome that works for both of them.
Both parties agree how decisions will be made, and confirm that nothing is moved or disposed of until the process is complete.
Working room by room, every item in the shared home is listed. Both parties review and sign off the inventory before any decisions are made.
Every item is sorted into Clear Ownership, Needs Discussion, or Sell or Donate — before allocation begins. This one step removes a huge amount of friction.
Contested items are worked through together with a facilitator, using fair methods such as prioritisation, alternating choice, or value offsetting.
All agreed allocations are recorded in a written Allocation Summary, signed by both parties. Each person keeps a copy.
A room-by-room record of every household item, built together and signed off by both parties.
A structured process for sorting items and working through the ones that need discussion.
A clear, signed record of what's been agreed — for both people to keep.
Guidance from an experienced separation coach throughout, not just on the day.
Whether you're currently separating or recently apart, All Settled gives you a fair, supported way to work through who keeps what — without it turning into a battle.
A structured, trusted service to refer clients to — one that keeps the practical side of separation calm, so your own work can stay focused.
Offered alongside VHP Coaching's workplace wellbeing programme, as practical support for employees going through separation.
All Settled sits within VHP Coaching, a practice specialising in supporting individuals and couples through separation and relationship breakdown — with experience across both individual clients and workplace wellbeing programmes.
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